Rediscovering the Art of Being Human
In today’s fast-paced, digital world, have we forgotten what it means to be human? To show genuine consideration and thoughtfulness to those we care about?
Building and nurturing relationships takes energy and effort. Yet, in the hustle of our busy lives, being a friend is often reduced to the occasional text or a like on social media. Let’s take a moment to pause, reflect, and embrace the little things that make life brighter for those around us.
Here are three simple but powerful ways to bring thoughtfulness back into our everyday lives.
1. Send a Card or Postcard
A handwritten note carries a weight that a text message never will.
Think about it: when was the last time you opened your mailbox to find something other than bills or junk mail? A birthday card can mean so much more than an Instagram collage. It’s tangible, personal, and heartfelt.
Take the time to sit down, pick out a beautiful card, and write something meaningful. Or print off your favorite photo together in postcard form and add a warm written reminder on the back of that special moment. Use sensory words to paint a picture or evoke a memory. Let your friends and family know how much you value them.
2. Be Spontaneous and Make a Call
How often do you scroll through your contacts, spot a familiar name, and think, “I should call them” but never do? A simple, spontaneous phone call can change someone’s day.
A sincere “How are you?” means more than a quick Snapchat streak or an emoji-laden DM. Real conversations foster connection. Give them your undivided attention and listen. You’ll be surprised at how much it strengthens your bond.
When a missed call from a friend causes concern because your calls are so few and far between, you know it's time to reset and stop doubting their availability.
3. Just Show Up
There’s no substitute for face-to-face communication.
Whether it’s a shared laugh, a hug, or just being in the same room, there’s no doubt about it in-person interactions deepen relationships and is the only consistent manner of building memories.
Seek opportunities by planning regular gatherings or celebrating milestones big or small. Just showing up at the door with take-out or a favorite snack and beverage in hand is enough to sit and have quality conversation over.
This is your sign to take that leap. Write that note. Make that call. Show up. Look someone in the eye and let them know they matter.
Incorporating these small but meaningful actions can transform your relationships and your outlook on life. Thoughtfulness isn’t just a gesture—it’s a way to create lasting memories and deepen the bonds we cherish.
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